Femdom Hypnosis Book Excerpt
The following is an excerpt from my book, ‘Hypnodomme: Memoirs Of A Professional Hypnotic Dominatrix’. Buy it on Amazon now.
“Man is the one who desires, woman the one who is desired. This is woman’s entire but decisive advantage. Through man’s passions, nature has given man into woman’s hands, and the woman who does not know how to make him her subject, her slave, her toy, and how to betray him with a smile in the end is not wise.” –Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch
The Lure Of The Siren
For as long as you can remember, you have secretly fantasized about a modern day siren—an alluring woman with an irresistible voice, who captivates and enthralls you, then commands you to do her bidding. Today, as you were trolling the internet, looking for some new porn, you happened across a website filled with stories about “erotic hypnosis”. As you began reading, you could hardly believe it—there are others who have the same fantasy…? Many others…? You find story after story, all submitted by users like you: men who fantasize about hypnotic women. You also find reviews and ads for women who claim to be “hypnodommes” and who offer something called “femdom hypnosis”; they say they will “enthrall and enslave” you.
Intrigued, you follow a link and check out one of the websites. Amid her alluring photos and tantalizing text, the hypnodomme lists many products for sale, including “hypnotic MP3s”. After wrestling with your conscience for a few minutes, you decide you can’t resist, and you order one. You download the file, get comfortable, pull on a headset, start the recording, and lie back. As soon as her soothing voice begins, you instantly feel your body responding…relaxing…melting. It’s almost frightening to finally experience—in reality—the very feelings you’ve fantasized about for so long.
“Let go…” she croons. “Relax…melt…” and you feel yourself relaxing, melting, letting go…
Erotic Hypnosis
When I first began as a hypnodomme, there was no common vernacular in the genre. It was just referred to as “erotic hypnosis”. Over those first months, as my business and experience developed, I began to notice patterns in the requests I received. I also saw that because “erotic hypnosis” was such a big, general umbrella, a lot of clients weren’t finding what they were really yearning for—at least not until I asked them some delving questions.
“Erotic hypnosis” really just means any hypnosis by any hypnotist (male or female) on any topic that is non-therapeutic and meant to be entertaining and sexually arousing. I hypnotize you and tell you that you are “soooo aroused, so big and hard and horny,” and it’s “erotic hypnosis”. Or I hypnotize you and tell you that you are now “my hypnotized plaything” and to “lick my boots” and it’s also “erotic hypnosis”. Not everyone into erotic hypnosis wants to be dominated, and those who do are not going to be satisfied with a servile, therapeutic hypnotist.
D/s or Femdom Hypnosis
I wanted some way to better explain the particular flavor of “erotic hypnosis” that I specialized in. After much thought, I coined the phrase: “D/s hypnosis”. D/s comes from the “traditional” BDSM community; the D/s stands for “Dominance and submission”. Then I wrote some articles about it on my blog. Over time, someone else used the phrase “Femdom hypnosis” to mean hypnosis by a “Female Dominant”, and that is the phrase that stuck for the genre. Alas, I can’t take credit for that, but at least most of the hypnosis fetishists were finally on the same page.
So this is what I was focused on and what I’m primarily describing in my book: Femdom hypnosis. (The “F” is often capitalized to indicate Dominance.) As I’ve said, Femdom hypnosis is hypnosis by a Dominant female, also known as “a hypnodomme”. The subject is most often a submissive male (or “hypnosub”), but it can also be a submissive female or even a couple. Hypnosis by a Dominant male would technically be “Dom hypnosis” and the male could be known as a “hypnodom”, but those terms aren’t often used.
Domination & Submission
In BDSM terms, the words “top” and “dom” are often used interchangeably, as are “bottom” and “sub”. This isn’t strictly correct, however. The term “top” refers to the person delivering the action—which could be bondage, flogging, spanking, or any number of “scene” ingredients. The “bottom” is the person receiving. The participants may or may not be Dominant and submissive. It is possible (believe it or not!) to enjoy an activity like flogging, simply for the physical sensations it creates, and not to be interested in a psychological power exchange or to crave to dominate or submit. So the participants in a BDSM scene from a purely mechanical point of view, are the “top” (person delivering) and the “bottom” (person receiving).
Dominance and submission, on the other hand, are more about the feelings (emotions) than the specific physical activity (sensations). Not because no special activity is needed to create those feelings (trust me, theater helps), but because the focus is on feeling submissive or Dominant, not on “getting flogged” or “getting spanked” or “getting to suck somebody’s toes”. In other words, for a true submissive, the desire to submit and serve is their “fetish”, and it is more important to them than feet, floggers, bondage, or whatever else may also turn them on. (I’ll talk more about this in a future chapter.)
Within the hypno-fetish genre, the majority of men are more accurately “hypno-bottoms” and not “hypnosubs”, because what they really want is erotic hypnosis delivered at their convenience by an attractive female hypnotist. What turns them on is whatever their specific fantasy is—a sexy CEO, irresistible witch, glamorous stage hypnotist, whatever—and not necessarily the idea of fulfilling their “Mistress’s” needs or desires. (In fact, most of the time, they don’t even consider that question.) However, they are often referred to—by themselves and by the Dominas they “serve”—as “hypnosubs” or “hypnoslaves”.
In my early days conducting phone sessions, I would often suss out a subject’s true interest by asking them to describe their favorite fantasies, starting at the point when they are already hypnotized. “So, what happens next, after she hypnotizes you…?” If they told me that they then imagined the “dominant hypnotist” commanding them to have sex with her, or to masturbate to release while she teased them, or to have sex with a room full of men, or to lick her beautiful toes which were freshly manicured in red—or anything similar—I knew that they didn’t really understand or crave “submission” and were more of a hypno-fetishist than a hypnosub. On the other hand, if their answer was more like this: “My Mistress commands me to please her in any way she desires” or “My Queen puts me to work for her and I happily obey”, this was a subject with true submissive leanings.
Switches
In BDSM vernacular, someone who is sometimes a top and sometimes a bottom is known as a “switch”. Occasionally I’ve come across hypno-enthusiasts who call themselves switches or say they “like to switch”. This usually means they like to be hypnotized and also like to do the hypnotizing. Since I am not a switch, I have never had any interest in being hypnotized by men whose tastes run that direction (or, rather, directions). It has been my experience that most men who identify as a “switch” are rarely truly submissive. Their attraction is to the hypnosis—receiving and giving—and not to the idea of serving a Woman.
Sissies
A common term in the hypno-fetish community is “sissy”, also known as a “sissy slut”, “feminized slave”, “hypnodrone”, “bimbo”, “fembot”, “sissy toy”, “sissy sub”, and so on.
A sissy is a male who has been “brainwashed” or hypnotized into believing (for the duration of the session, anyway), feeling, and acting like an exaggerated female. Usually they are “mindless”, ditzy, and often lisp or whine. Often, the key point of this fantasy is being “turned into a slut” and “forced to suck cock”. (No, hypnosis can’t really turn a heterosexual male into a mindless sex drone who suddenly can’t get enough dick. However, say a straight appearing male had a secret desire to suck cock, being “made to do it” while “under hypnosis” would be the perfect, non shame or guilt producing fantasy, right?)
You may be surprised to learn that there is a huge, HUGE market for sissy hypnosis. Since it’s not something that turns me on, I didn’t offer feminization sessions or MP3s, but most mistresses do because the market is so lucrative. (More about ‘Why I Don’t Sissify’ in this post.)
Erotic Versus Submission
This brings up another important distinction in terms: not all hypno-fetishists are “subs” (short for submissives). In my experience, most men who enjoy erotic hypnosis do not have desires that include any form of “submission”. They want to be turned on and sexually gratified. They may fantasize about sexually aggressive women dressed in leather, but their motivation is to please themselves, not to serve the women they are fantasizing about.
Often, the deep relaxation of the hypnotic state allows the mind to more freely imagine and clearly visualize. This can create some very realistic phone sex sessions. Simply because a male is being hypnotized by a female and the topic is erotic in nature, does not mean he is a hypnosub—even if he’s fantasizing that she’s wearing thigh-high black leather boots. Again, not all erotic hypnosis is Femdom hypnosis.
What Kind Of Man…
Wants to be a hypnoslave? Calls a hypnodomme on NiteFlirt? The answer is, lots of different men. All ages (over 18, of course). All lines of work. My most common “type” was a heterosexual male over the age of 40, living in the United States (though I got calls from multiple countries,) who made enough income to afford my services. This means they were usually successful in their careers. (College students could rarely afford to be regulars.)
Often, they were married with children. (I didn’t ask for details about their relationships. In fact, it was a rule in My Realm that they not discuss their wives with me.) Many of them traveled regularly for work, but the ones who didn’t found some other way to be available for our calls. They would contact me when their wife was out of town or out with her friends; they would call me from the office in the evenings; they called from their cell phones while at a hotel on business; they sometimes even called me from their cars. If a man has a sexual desire, he will usually find a way to gratify it, sooner rather than later.
The other thing most of my male patrons had in common was their desire to “let go”. These were powerful, successful males living in a society with huge expectations about masculinity. In addition, they were frequently responsible for the support of a family and sometimes for the management of a business or a corporate division. In other words, they were Large And In Charge ALL THE TIME…and that can get extremely burdensome. In theory, married men should be able to relax with their wives on occasion, but most women don’t react well if their husbands approach them with the desire to “submit” or “worship their feet”. (More on that in another chapter.)
Using the services of a professional domina allows powerful, successful men to take a brief break in private, without risking their reputation, street cred, authority, or relationship roles. In other words, they can be someone else for an hour and then go back to their usual lives feeling rejuvenated. Or sated. Or inspired. Time after time my callers told me things like: “I just want someone else to drive for a while,” or “Make me mindless so I can stop thinking,” or “I want to let go and obey,” or “I want you to call the shots and tell me what to do”… READ MORE HERE
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‘Hypnodomme: Memoirs Of A Professional Hypnotic Dominatrix’: For the first time ever, a real hypnodomme shares a frank, comprehensive look at the world of femdom hypnosis! For more than fifteen years, the Hypnosis Goddess was one of the world’s top professional hypnodommes (AKA hypnotic dominatrix), operating from her web realm at hypnosisgoddess.com. During those years, she hypnotized hundreds of men over the phone, via her expert hypnotic mp3s, through text chats and mesmerizing graphics, and, very rarely, on TV, in person at conventions, in hotel rooms, and, once, in the back of a limo that was circling the Las Vegas Strip. As a successful Hypnodomme, she not only made a good living financially, but also enjoyed fabulous benefits, such as the thousands of wishlist gifts (literally—thousands!) sent by her many patrons and the thrill of hypnotizing and dominating wealthy, powerful men. (The wardrobe was incredibly fun, too!) In this revealing book, she honestly addresses: the hypnosis fetish, femdom hypnosis, erotic hypnosis, live phone sessions, hypnosis mp3s, financial domination, wishlists, tributes, in-person sessions, her personal RL experiences with submissive men and fetishists, and much, much more…! Buy It On Amazon NOW.
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“I’ve been eagerly awaiting this book ever since Hypnosis Goddess revealed her intention to write it. The book came out while I was on vacation with my wife. I downloaded it immediately, but I found the first chapter to be so arousing, I had to put it aside until I could finish it in privacy…Hypnosis Goddess began her hypnodomme career during the Golden Age of online hypnodommes, when women like Soforia, Goddess Marquesa, Mistress Dominica, and others were pioneering new ways of leveraging their hypnotic skills. I respect all those women, but for me, Hypnosis Goddess stood out from the crowd. Now there are hundreds of women trying to copy the success of those first few women, but most of them don’t seem to know very much about hypnosis other than the fact that they want to advertise that they do it…If you are curious about what it might have been like to be hypnotized by her, the book contains tantalizing excerpts from the scripts of some of her representative recordings. These excerpts cannot truly convey the feeling of being hypnotized by her, but they will give the reader some idea of the range of themes available from her via recordings or live sessions…As another reviewer pointed out, no one else has written a book like this…”
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